My Boyfriend of 2� Years Doesn't want to have with me...?

I met my boyfriend about 2 months before i broke up with my ex. He's very sweet and sensitive. it was almost a year before we even had . (he was my first) My parents don't and will never approve of him, but i loved being with him. He's funny and outgoing. We moved in together about 8 months ago and i actually got pregnant at the end of November. He seemed really excited about it. I miscarried however. well, it's been over two months since we've had . Whenever we did before, i had to be the one to initiate it and i've gotten to the point where i'm tired of initiating it. Now all he does is play video games all the time or watches TV. he doesn't really help around the house unless i ask him to. He still hasn't filed for his divorce. he's still married. I do all laundry, cleaning, cooking. he gives me money for 1/2 the bills, but i pay them. he's unmotivated, lazy, unambitious, and gets his feelings hurt and pouts if i say anything. I'm just getting fed up.